Q&A - Week 2, Part 1

Question

Here's my question: Does size really matter to you females, or is that just some ego stroking bullshit you tell us guys?

I've got a million more questions, but Bam wouldn't answer that one for me honestly and I want to know.

Ben


Khar says: Goodness. First of all, to everyone reading this who isn't Ben, I think you should be aware that I would be the "Bam" he's referring to. Ben (for the time being anyway)(just kiddin') is my boyfriend and I'm going to tell you exactly what I've told him.

Size is not the most important factor. You have to know what you're doing with it, regardless of how big it is. I've been with a very well endowed man before who had no idea what he was doing with his dick and frankly I found myself simply laying there thinking "would he hurry the hell up?" but I've been with someone below average who knew what we was doing and could please me. (Don't wanna hear that shit Ben? Maybe you should've just taken my word on it earlier).

Nan will probably explain it better... but it's true. I like big dicks, I won't lie about that. Big dicks that curve upward? Even better. I'd take a small dick with skills over a big dick with no skills anyday, but the greatest of great? A well endowed man who knows what he's doing (So quit being so goddamn paranoid if you ever want laid again LOL)




Nan says: First of all, I can’t even tell you how incredibly happy I am that a guy is on here asking us a question. I’m bouncing around over here like a kid cracked out on Mt Dew and Pixie Sticks. *deep breaths* Okay, I’m good now.

If you really want an honest answer, I’ll give you one. Does size matter? Yes and no. A big dick is great, sure, but if he doesn’t know how to use it, what’s the fucking point? Right? And vice versa, if a guy’s a little less than average, but knows how to rock my world, more power to him.

Ultimately it’s not the size that makes the difference, Benny. It’s all in the way you rock it. What’s the adage? It’s not the size of the ship, but the motion of the ocean. And that’s God’s truth. So whatever Bam said, it was probably true and you just didn’t want to take it at face value. ;)




Conclusion: To be frank, we just want dick that knows what the fuck it’s doing. Big and small, we love them all. But only if they know how to fuck.






sexual healing…

I've been told that song is going to be played at my wedding.
Not sure how my parents would feel about that.

Anyways, I get really bad cramps on my period. Like, my uterus is trying to escape my body and my stomach is running the other direction cramps. Nice visual isn't it? I'm getting to the question, i swear. I've been told that orgasms help relieve that pain, is this true? I've never tried...

Shae


Khar says: Yes, indeed, orgasms are a GREAT way to relieve cramps. I'm not ashamed to say it's a tactic I utilize often.

The reason this works is because an orgasm causes your uterus to contract, which enables it to use up excess prostaglandins in the process. Prostagladins are the hormones produced by your uterine lining that help to stimulate contractions that move menstrual blood out. That's what causes the cramps, the prostaglandins that are creating small contractions to expel blood during your period.

Yeah, there's the medical mambo jambo. The short answer is, getting off indeed helps relieve cramps. Do it. I mean, fuck.... it can't hurt, ya know?




Nan says: That was a mighty nice visual… even more disturbing since I have actually had cramps that painful before. I think I just had sympathy pains. But in answer to your question, yes orgasm can help relieve the pain. Again we’ll go back to the endorphins released during an orgasm but then we’ll expound on it from there.

First you need to understand what an orgasm is. It’s hard to define since they are different for everyone. Even further, each encounter might trigger a different kind of orgasm, but we’ll go with the basics. An orgasm is the pleasurable release of built up tension and sexual energy.

When we orgasm, our hearts beat faster and our breathing comes quicker. The blood is pumped more quickly through our bodies and rushes to the groin. Oxytocin, one of those endorphins we were talking about earlier, is released in the brain giving you a happy and relaxed feeling. Our muscles begin to spasm and ultimately our pelvic muscles contract.

When your pelvic muscles contract it’s similar to a labor contraction, but on a much smaller scale. It feels more like a firm massage. The massaging can ease some of the discomfort from the cramps. Plus the endorphins can act as a pain blocker.

I’d suggest at least giving it a shot. It may or may not work for you, and a lot of that depends on the many factors of your orgasms. I wish I could give you a more definitive answer.




Conclusion: Khar rocks at the medical jargon. Nan has no fucking clue. But we do agree on one thing and that’s that orgasms can definitely make you feel better when you’re cramping. Four more tits way up. Like porn star tits too.